--- title: The Shipley School | | Catherine Mallam description: Catherine Mallam is the Lower School Director of Student Support at The Shipley School. With over 30 years of experience as a school counselor, Catherine’s experience includes designing and delivering a comprehensive K-5 school counseling program from its inception and founding a peer mediation program that served as a model for other schools. Catherine speaks to educators and parent groups at independent and public schools in the Philadelphia area about children's friendships, executive functioning skills, and childhood anxiety. 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This kind of friendship can be confusing and hurtful, leaving parents unsure how to best support their child. In this blog post, Catherine Mallam, Shipley's Lower School Director of... [![Teasing, Bullying, and Conflict: What’s the Difference?](https://blogs.shipleyschool.org/hubfs/2024-02-Teasing-Bullying-Conflict.jpg)](https://blogs.shipleyschool.org/teasing-bullying-and-conflict-whats-the-difference) [Lower School](https://blogs.shipleyschool.org/topic/lower-school) [Parenting](https://blogs.shipleyschool.org/topic/parenting) [social emotional learning](https://blogs.shipleyschool.org/topic/social-emotional-learning) [Teasing, Bullying, and Conflict: What’s the Difference?](https://blogs.shipleyschool.org/teasing-bullying-and-conflict-whats-the-difference) The third grader was pensive as he described interactions with a classmate. “My mom is really upset because she thinks I’m being bullied,” he told me, “but I think I’m being teased.” Turns out, he was right! The words teasing, bullying, and conflict are often used interchangeably, but they describe... 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